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Proudmommieof2   in reply to SysBot   on

What's on your heart and mind today?

 in response to JPMcGee...   Mag your welcome, and JPM, I plan too! I had to take down 2 wishes i had posted there to get help with a student loan and my daughters to get an easter basket.. Got the basket but no help on the loan but its fine :D I will get help soon enough :)

I plan to see if I can get some purses donated, also gonna head to a place if I can get some money donated and buy up a few purses from a small store and get some samples and such too :D Anything possible to due up a few purses! TYsm
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Proudmommieof2   in reply to SysBot   on

What's on your heart and mind today?

 in response to My daughter'sdad...   First off, I'm Wiccian not Christian.. Second off, you need to get a better education of both grammar and manners. You claim to have a wonderful life but yet you come at people like you in need of attention 24/7.
From what I can tell with you, your life isn't all to par. Your sad, unhappy and seem miserable. Anyone willing to come to a site that has people in need and rage on them about this and that.
Most people only have "God" as their only hope or faith and you bash them for their hope. You do need help and not only from a professional psychologist for you mental problems which I would stem from you job problems or family stress, you also need your own "God's" help. Your truly a sad, sad little man or *Troll* as we in the gaming world call people like you.

You pretty much walk around with your head stuck between your bum breathing in your own "Crap" and to make yourself feel better about your short comings, you pick on people who are less in the world but still have their faith and hope, their compassion and free will to give a damn about people who are in need but willing to spend their own money on people who can't even afford to get their meds, food or even clothes. You think yourself so much better than anyone else on here but in all reality, your a 30+ or even 40+ yr old man, possibly balding, with a kid(s) who resents you, wife who is putting on a show for you to boost your ego and a job your hating because you make enough but have to many long hours, a boss who is below your standards and co-workers who needless to say, assume the right thing by calling you out behind your back.
You claim to be happy but yet your a bully, a online bully bent on hurting anyone or anything with feelings and have no reguard to whom you hurt.
I bet you one day when Karma comes around, your gonna hurt someone on this site, they hurt themselves, hurt someone else, being family or friend, or worse, kill themselves, possbly ncluding family or friends, and they will single you out as being the person causing it.. Once that happens, Karma along with the law will be knocking at your door and the only thing that will be willing to comfort you is a 6'3 musclar man named Dave who hasn't seen a woman in well over 10+ yrs whos in need of a good "Pansy" man like you.

I pray that someone helps you before you cause deadly harm to someone and "Dave" gets his meat hands on your virgin bum!
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Proudmommieof2   in reply to SysBot   on

What's on your heart and mind today?

 in response to bookworm2011...   Ty for the suggestions! about the couponing where would i got to get them? ive been hearing about it but never can find trhem.. i ws told about coupons that i can get free items which is a big help for my group. As for what " My daughter's dad" Said, I use the purses to hold the items but mainly there are women who need a new purse. some like myself use them to look presentable for a job interview. other use them to hold diapers and such.. I have been running my group for well over 6 months now. And I have been running off of donations. Ive been able to help 4 families, 2 single moms, 1 woman out of work and 5 kids. i have about 15 families, 5 single moms and 3 young women who were being abused in the group. Ive so far helped out a few but want to keep helping the best i can.. The 3 abused women are in hiding but are doing great! They are slowly getting their lives on the road to recovery.

I am looking to put together more Stuffed Purses for the contest which are coming out great! But money is tight so i can't run it like i want which is 3-4 purses every 10 days... so if you could please do contact me about the coupons!
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Proudmommieof2   in reply to SysBot   on

What's on your heart and mind today?

 in response to My daughter'sdad...   Ok that is beyond rude of you! First off I am helping women who need items such as hygeine products and makeup.. The purse comes in handy for owmen who need to put their wallets in, make up and such.. How is that wrong? You have some issues you need to work out.. You are for surely in need of help yourself for coming at me about wanting to help my group who is in need of things. You need God in your life too.. Apparently someone isn't getting the love and attention from their family and friends unless you have none which i wouldnt doubt with such hate you just spewed out.
MY cause is a blessing.. yours is full of hate. So please go to church as for God's help and use it. But keep your hate to your self please.. I dont need your neg juju up in my group!
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Proudmommieof2   in reply to SysBot   on

What's on your heart and mind today?

So this isn't to big of a favor to ask.. but still wanted to ask here. I'm looking for 2-4 purses, 1 small sized 2 medium and 1 large or very large purse. I am also looking for avon,mary kay and mark samples, trial sizes or full sized products, like body wash, lotions, shampoos and such. Also looking for makeup such as eye liner, lip liner, eye shadow, lip gloss, lipstick, blush, foundation, nail polish etc, in sampe sizes, trial sizes and full sized from Avon, Mary Kay and Mark.

I am looking also for anything from towards these items from the Dollar Tree. And anything for a little girl's to preteen's purse too. I put together "Stuffed Purses" for a group I am involved with and send them out to the people who sign up for needing them. Basically a contest and the winner recieves the Stuffed purse :)...

Ive been looking for items myself but with my limited income, which I get once a month from cleaning a house, its enough to cover shipping but nothing more. So I am looking for anyone willing to donate to helping me out!

More purses can be sent than just what i have asked. There is no set limit.. I do ask they come from smokefree homes though due to allergies from myself and others that are in this group.. The items help women who are looking for work that need makeup products or hygiene products that can't afford them on their own...

I can provide my personal infomation if you email me at either my aol account or yahoo account. You can send a private email to me here but it's rare i get on this site... ive been dealing with this group a lot and dont have much time to check here. I stay on aol or yahoo alot now since most of my group email there.
Emails are below.. thank you and god bless!




donnakeely@aol.com
fanahthenitelf@yahoo.com
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Proudmommieof2  

In need of help!

So I know hoildays aren't supposed to be big and all. I understand that the first thing I will hear from people is, don't worry my kids wont remember.

Well this has nothing to do with that. Fact being I need help with this big time. Everyone knows easter is coming up and I need help asap! I have baskets for my girls, but would like help filing them! I'm trying to get help with our family's traditional easter dinner and our easter party, basically just a small egg hunt with them looking for their baskets and then eggs both boiled and decoracted and the plastic ones i can fill!
I would like to know if anyone is willing to help us out! I know more people are worst off, but this is our tradition on my family. This is something I can't just ignore or blow off. Each year we have a nice dinner and the hunt. And it's like thanksgiving. We say what were are thankful for and i even tell a small story about how Jesus died for us. I haven't been able to the last couple years on the story since our bible was ruined.

Now again I understand that is may not be a big deal to alot but to me this is big. this along with Halloween is a major hoilday for my family. So is there anyone willing to help us? I am willing to provide my home number to those willing to help.

I am also looking for help with office/arts & crafting supplies for my children which I can send a personal email on the items needed/wanted. My oldest is in art therapy for her bi-polar mood swings as a alter to taking mediciation she doesnt need. I need office supplies for my child care/day care I am opening back up to bring in much needed income in a month! Super excited so need help asap!


Please email me personally at fanahthenitelf@yahoo.com or donnakeely@aol.com.
Please email me at one of these since i rarely come to this site due to, to many scams and spam!
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Proudmommieof2   in reply to Proudmommieof2   on

Daughter needs help! Please help me pay my phone bill~!

I have a picture of my phone bill attached below and can get one of my final notice if needed. Again if I can get atleast 109 of it paid it would be a blessing!
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Proudmommieof2  

Daughter needs help! Please help me pay my phone bill~!

Can someone anyone.. please help me!

I have a 7 yr old daughter who has mental problems and behavioral problems and can't attend public school. She's being home schooled online now but the problem is my phone is due for shut off Sept 29th

I need 217.97 to keep it on. If I could get half of that paid 109.00 paid on it right now I can find a way to pay the remaining balance myself. I need atleast half to work with them to keep my internet for my daughter.

Please someone help me.. I have tried everything. I don't have family. I don't know where to turn to. And I got no help here! Please I just need the 109.00 paid! You can pay this amount yourself if there is any problem. I don't care I seriously need this paid. or even if I could get the 217.97 paid it would be a blessing. Please she needs to stay in school or they will call DCF on me.
She has to be in school and I can't get the money up. I've tried everything
I need either 217.97 paid in full or 109.00 paid on it please contact me for the into!

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Proudmommieof2  

Endless

 in response to ekikaseven...   I treat my family equal, Although my girls come first always. It sounds harsh, but I can always replace a family pet but I can never replace my girls.
I love my cats and dogs, and I will never get rid of them, put them down because of a major illness such a heart worms, cancer or they are suffering is one thing but to put them down because I can't have them I will not do.
I understand pet love, but some people do take it to far and neglect their own children for their pets. I treat my children way better than my own pets as how it should be but every one is equal in my home.
I never do treat my pets better than my children though. No matter what if I honestly had to choose food for my pets over food for them or health care at the matter. I would choose my children. I may loose a pet because of it, but I can replace them my girls I can't.
Thats why my bills are this and that. I blessed to have medicaid for the children, so i don't have to worry about them not getting medical attention or medication they need. So if it does arise the furry ones need medical attention and I can afford it, I will cover it. If I can't I will seek donations or other means of help. If this fails and their is no other option, I will leave it up to my children and myself to decided whats best.
Like now my small dog suffers from a heart condition due to worms. He's living well and has a rare cough from over doing it but other wise lives happy. If he came down to his health getting worse and they gave me the option of heart worm treatment or putting him down, I would opt putting him down. Only because I know the treatment would make him suffer and could kill him in a painful way.I would rather him die peacefully then suffer a slow painful treatment death.
If and when that day comes though, we have plans to breed him for another pup to carry on his name and blood line :)
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Proudmommieof2  

Endless

 in response to ekikaseven...   I understand believe me.

We were blessed though. Our home is bought and paid for, a friend of ours just gave us the home. No questions asked and as for bills honestly the only ones I have big concerns about it my phone/net.

My girls papa as they call him pays our lights and when needed our lot rent. We get well water so no worries on paying that either. The phone/net is a must because my 7 yr old has problems and I'm always calling in about appointments or talking to her school about her behavior. Which is the biggest problem because they can't deal with her problems.
The net is a bigger must because I am in school online and she's starting home schooling soon. I'm praying that I can get the bill paid this month, I hope tomorrow because it's due to be cut off and I don't have the funds right now to pay it myself.

I understand about bills, I personally never dealth them other than forking over the money to my boyfriend since he's all but gave up on looking for work. Hasn't touched a want ad in almost a month and being alone with no family other than my kids, I got no place to go even if I wanted to leave.
Plus I have furry kids I refuse to leave behind, put in a shelter or adopt out.. I won't even consider temporary housing for them. they are all I have left in my life. My kids and my furry kids no one else.
I was actually told to put them up and kill them off so I wouldn't have to pay out for their needed. They are my children, my girls know them as their 3 brothers and 4 sisters. Weird I know but I grew up that way. Were family :)
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Proudmommieof2   in reply to Proudmommieof2   on

Care Packages!

Please contact me personally at donnakeely@aol.com or fanahthenitelf@yahoo.com
I rarely come to this site and so I never get the messages till it's to late!
I am on yahoo all the time under my email address name!. Please email me any time. I am always around from 530am-12am monday-Friday and 9am-12am weekends
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Proudmommieof2  

Care Packages!

Ok can some one help me.. I'm looking for a care package.. Well a couple actually. One for my family and one put together to help a group I'm helping.
I'm trying to put together small care packages together this year. So I'm looking for all kinds of Sample items such as shampoos, conditioners, soaps, body washes, lotions, sunscreen, perfumes, colognes, shaving creams, after shave, deodorant, toothpaste, tooth brushes, razors for both men and women, body mist, body sprays, makeup, lip sticks, blushes, eye shadows, eyeliners, lip gloss, chap stick, lip liner, moose, hair gels, and any other various samples or full sizes. Also looking for small totes, purses, hand bags, wallets etc for women and wallets for men. Avon and Mary Kay samples are also very much welcomed!
Anything is needed and welcomed. I am also looking for coupons for anything from Dog items, cat items, newborns, infants, children, preteens, teens, pre-adults, adult and elderly. I am also collecting points for cokes, Pepsi, Huggies and other various other sites that off points for rewards. I am trying to put together care packages for people in need :)..
I have so far gotten up to about 10 coke and Pepsi lids with points and have no clue what they do or what they are for. Honestly don't care I just want to help people out!
Out of respect I am asking everything donated please come from a smoke free home. The people I work with do have allergies. Please make sure the items are in good-great condition, unused, new, and in date!


As for my family and myself.
We're looking for non perishable foods *In date not expired*,gift cards or reloadable cards from Wal-Mart *I do have a debt card for Wal-Mart* For my children
Donna - chap sticks, shampoo 2in1 conditioner, hair brush, body wash, bubble bath, toothpaste, tooth brush, nail polish for girls, hair accessories,
Natalee- chap sticks, tear free shampoo and condition or tear free 2-1 shampoo/conditioner. body wash (for children under 5) bubble bath, toothpaste and toothbrush, hair accessories.
For my boyfriend he needs deodorant, body spray, men's razors for sensitive skin.
For myself I need, deodorant (Suave 24 hour protection in powder scent), women's razors for sensitive skin, shaving creams for sensitive skin, dandruff shampoo, toothpaste (for whitening teeth) Mouthwash (for whitening teeth and alcohol free) and chap stick.
And 4 bath scrubbers

Both girls are also asking for arts/crafting items such as
*Everything listed were asking that they be in assorted sizes, shapes, colors and patterns please :D*
pompoms, Google eyes, pipe cleaners, tons and tons and tons of buttons, tons and tons of beads (various shapes, sizes, colors, can be glass, plastic, etc), scissors *wacky designs* hole punches *assorted shape punchers*



Mismatch socks - Stain free, hole free, clean and from a smoke free home. And tons and tons of cotton fluff!
We are also looking for sewing needles, threads of various colors, paints (Washable), finger paints (washable), construction paper, glitter, glue bottle, glue sticks (both non toxic), color pencils, markers (non toxic and scented, including the ones with the cute little shapes), crayons, pencils, pencil sharpener, stencils, smocks, cottons balls, .) glue sticks (Used for glue guns, we already have 2 glue guns ), . Were also looking for the little $0.25 machine toys that are no long wanted or needed. And anything else that can be used towards arts and crafting.

My 7 yr old does have mental problems and as recommended by doctors, I am supposed to bring in the "Special Therapy" for her to express her feelings and moods. Basically my daughter is bi-polar, my youngest thank god isn't. As a way to prevent early use of medication the doctors want to get her to express her self in a constructive way instead of a destructive way. During the first part of school till about the last 2 months of school she is able to do so. Seems once she knows school is winding down she starts to spiral in a way. And gets out of control. Even at home, she gets bored with her self and others and doesn't allow her feelings to get out so they build till she explodes.

Anyways as an outlet were trying Art as the therapy since it works at school and when I had the supplies it works at home too!

This is stuff we need for our own personal use and a few of the crafts made will be donated towards the care packages I am putting together myself J
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Proudmommieof2  

Endless

I feel your pain.. I've been coming here since 2009 I think.. And have yet to get help.. I've been in dire need of getting bills paid and a little help on food, christmas and birthdays and all I hear is my bills are more important.
I guess people never heard the fact that when your a poor mother with no job or income bills dont matter.. its the childrens happiness that counts
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Proudmommieof2   in reply to SysBot   on

What's on your heart and mind today?

 in response to Miller...   Hey I know this may not help but try these 2 sites, I joined them and trust both...
www.treeofwishes.com
www.wishuponahero.com
You can post 1 wish every 72 hours on Wishuponahero and 3 wishes a day on treeofwishes.
Also try
www.listia.com
It's a free auction site where you can use credits instead of money. It's may help. I use all 3 and trust them
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Proudmommieof2   in reply to SysBot   on

What's on your heart and mind today?

 in response to YonnaB...   Hun from expereince I have learned no matter where you live, no one can kick you out with out an eviction notice! She even though your mother must supply you with a 30 day at most notice, you can then fight it and since you have kids, you will or should get extentions.
I would check into housing areas and tell them your problem. I'm struggling more than I care to admit and like you I have 2 kids. One I had at 18 and was thrown out of my mothers house at 16.
Fight for your rights as a mother, no matter if your owne mother you fight for your rights!
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Proudmommieof2   in reply to SysBot   on

What's on your heart and mind today?

I need help! I'm on 2 other sites, one I am waiting on a 72 hour lock out. I've been posting for help about getting my phone bill paid.
It's a must in my home, my 7 yr old has special needs and has started homeschooling due to the problem plus she's been bullied and sufferes hearing problems again now.
I don't want to get the cash or what ever in hand because I don't want people thinking I just want it to want it, I have a copy of my actual online bill and I will give the proper info needed to pay it back.
I owe 217.97 as of Sept 7 2011 and that's from June 16th, July 16th and August 16th. I pay or did pay 75.00 a month on my phone bill which includes internet, since I attend college online part time. Now that my 7 yr old is attending home schooling she will be online full time every day monday-friday.
I was supposed to be getting a stipended from my school this month but they had some problems in the loan office and I was accidently with drawn instead midway through class, So I owe $130.00 out of $1392.00 from the last 3 weeks of my class. Even though it's the schools and loan office fault I still have to pay that.
So since this is happening I can't afford my phone bill. My phone company has been so much a blessing for letting me pay like I have and I'm so happy they have been but it's leaving me at a loss now.
I have attached a copy of my phone bill status I just need someone to help me, I am willing, if and only IF I get the money, I can pay the 217.97 back.
I must have this bill paid, my daughter needs a phone incase something happens to her, plus I have a 3 yr old little girl and they are my life. I'm trying to sell my jewerly to get the money up but having no lucky on getting funds :(
Please someone help me. I have posted my home number if anyone is willing to please call me! Or you can personally email me at the address below. I rarely get on here so I may not get your message.
I need teh 217.97 paid asap or my phone and daughter will suffer :(
850-997-2856 - Home
fanahthenitelf@yahoo.com
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Proudmommieof2   in reply to SysBot   on

What's on your heart and mind today?

2 things.
1 Anyone mind telling me where I can get free help for getting arts and crafts supplies for my soon be reopened daycare, afterschool care and school supplies for my children?

2. Anyone know an actual secure, safe, and well known grant that will help out a single mother of 2 needing money to pay bills, move into a small place and take care of her children?!

I am out of work and I need a grant of some kind to cover the bills and expenses to survive till I get a job.
Please anyone knowing this email me directly at fanahthenitelf@yahoo.com
donnakeely@aol.com
griffinschildcare@yahoo.com
tippy_85_99@yahoo.com
Please put Aidpage or Want To Help (spelt just like this including captial letters) other wise I will assume Spam.
I check my aol account once per day sometimes once every 3 days and same goes with my griffinschildcare email addy since its rarely used.
Please don't send me a site if its no good, spam or not going to help me. I can give contact info once you prove your not spam or a scam.
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Proudmommieof2  

WTF is going on!?

Ok so I got tired of coming to this site asking for help. I have been coming every other day checking for any thing.. and I mean anything towards help. Nothing. This site keeps telling me I got messages and nothing.. I have the same thing in my mail box as I did before. I found another site to get a little help with my children's birthday just because I can't afford to do get them anything. Still no work, still no help :(.. What is with this site?! I mean seriously.. I keep getting told to pray and wait.. I have been praying and waiting for the last yr and nothing!! Someone please please tell me someplace that I can for sure get a job, earn money and able to support my girls. NO home based jobs.. I already got screwed on 300 for working at home 2 times now.
I want to be able to get up about 200 maybe 300 and got out and spoil myself. I want to rent a motel for the weekend and go to get my hair and nails done.. and go out to eat by myself with out my children or their dad. I haven't done this in over 6yrs...
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Proudmommieof2   in reply to Proudmommieof2   on

Job's no where to be seen

I have been out of work since 2006. When it started to go down hill.. I'm trying my best to pray for work. My boyfriend has a job but he won't help me pay for my loans for my school so I have to get work fast. As for medical problems.. I have high blood pressure that causes me to retain a lot of water making it very hard to walk because my feet swell so bad. I also have a problem with my ankle from dislocating it and also breaking my jaw.. Plus I have mental problems such as axiety attacks, panick attack, bipolar, spilt personalities, depression, and PTSD from being raped and molested most my life.. I also have migranes that restrict me to the bed most times. I have tried so hard to get disablity but I can't get it with out medication and i can't afford medication because I don't have medicaid and i cant get medicaid because of my child support issues and thats alll due to my boyfriend being unable to sign the birth cert at the hosptial and we can't afford to do it now.. Since they will force him to pay 3 yrs worth back.. Even though he supporting her for the past 3 yrs now... or soon to be 3 yrs comes august. I just don't know what else to do..
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Job's no where to be seen

Well just an update. My boyfriend is now a Sub Contractor for a local screening and enclosure company. I am still looking for work and becoming a little depressed in the fact I can't find anything. Finally getting stamps and medicaid again for my both my girls and my boyfriend but still unable to atleast get medicaid for myself. They claim I am refusing to talk to the child support office about my daughter's father who is my boyfriend.. Say I won't talk to them about getting things going but I know what will happen if I do as they want. 2+ years of back child support even though he has been raising her for the past 2 years with me. This is florida and they won't listen to me if i told them this.. So i just put it off.. I hate doing it.. but what else can i do. I need a job that pays good so I can afford to to go the local clinic and get seen.. Been 3 years since I have been seen. And the only time I can get medicaid is if Im pregnant. Not gonna be a kid popper just to be seen...
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